How To Have Phone Sex: A Guide For Regular Folks (Part 3)

Magnum PI Image(The thrilling conclusion of this special series from your friends at TalkToMeMen.com!)

In Part 2 we learned the basic phone sex strategy, now we’ll break down erotic arousal into easy phrases that create instant mental images for maximum stimulation!

Real Formulas for Hot Talk

Formulas? For phone sex?! Crazy as it might sound, it’s easy to learn phone sex by practicing certain words & phrasing in specific arrangements. The more you practice, the better you’ll get until, eventually, you can do it naturally.

Start off with a simple sentence structure like:

I want.

A complete sentence by itself, but not terribly sexy. So finish it. What do you want? It can be something as simple as, “I want cock” or you can add as much flourish as you want: “I want your delicious cock sliding across my juicy lips, into my hungry mouth…” And you can want all kinds of things from your partner:
penis   sex   desire  free rein    worship   punishment    input    obedience   information   rewards   praise   dares   truth   nakedness

You can also want to DO things to your partner:
hold   kiss   caress   grope   fuck   suck   pound   nip   lick   spank  squeeze  

*Remember, a simple sentence like “I want” provides a blank slate for you to start laying down your sexual intentions, bringing your conversation to life.

You don’t have to stop there!

Use further descriptors to create memorable, relatable images that excite and arouse:
warm   slippery   juicy   supple   tight   dripping   smooth   hairy    hard   rigid   stiff   erect   thick   powerful   massive   long-lasting    purple-headed

softly   gently   teasingly   deftly   mysteriously   slowly   nimbly   vigorously   sensually   passionately   forcefully   anonymously   lovingly

These are just suggestions, of course, but you get the idea. Go ahead and put together a “glossary” of favorite erotic terms you can use as you’re learning, and turn to for inspiration with every new partner. Phone sex is storytelling; use action and detail and your phone sex stories will sing!

Other good sentences to customize with your own erotic embellishments:

“My __________________  is/are so ______________________ .”

“Your  __________________  is/are so ______________________ .”

“Let me feel your ________________ .”

“Put your ___________________ on/in my _____________________.”

“Do you wanna  ___________________________ ?”

Keep in Mind
  • With time and practice, these simple formulas will help you cultivate your own unique phone sex style. Increase the intensity of your words as you and your partner move closer to orgasm. Don’t rush it, though!  Everyone has their own pace, so try not to add pressure by watching the clock.
  • Never fake it. You and your partner need to genuinely enjoy talking sexy, for phone sex to truly satisfy. So relax and have fun. Keep it light and easy. Let your imagination run wild, but check in often with your partner so you’re both aroused, engaged, and excited. Get comfortable talking dirty, and your phone sex stories will know no limits.
  • Keep an open mind. Be willing to experiment. Believe in yourself, trust your intuition, follow your feelings, and you’ll do great!